Ep 161: "Am I tolerating someone's bad behavior by working on myself?"

Send us Fan MailHave you ever-so-nicely asked for what you want in a relationship - just to be met with their wounded reaction and dismissal? Maybe you start to wonder if it’s too much to ask for, and if you shouldn’t need it to begin with. A typical is-it-me-or-them situation.In this week’s episode, I answer a question from a listener who easily feels abandoned. The relationship she is in easily inflames that wound, and she wonders, “What is valid to be upset about?”—Check out these related episodes:Ep130: Is it me or them?Ep159: What about the other person’s half?Ep157; When to stay and when to goEp153: Understanding and practicing honesty—You find show notes in this post on my website Now enrolling for the fall:My yearlong mentorship into secure relating and leading from love:The Embodied Relationship Academy (ERA)2 days in person Sep 30-Oct 1 included!Next coaching training cohort starts in October.Read more about the Nagual: mystery school and coach certificationRegistration open for 2027 power journey:Mexico February