EP 164: Matthew & Joanna's Story

Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith are clinicians, speakers, and authors of the book Building True Intimacy: Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time. They have over 20 years of combined experience in counseling, coaching, and guiding couples toward healing and transformation. Their mission is to help couples navigate the complexities of relational challenges, particularly in the aftermath of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma, fostering deep restoration and growth. Sam and Chris interview Matthew and Joanna about their 12-year journey from personal crisis to professional careers helping couples recover from addiction and betrayal. The couple recounts their early struggles, how addiction and infidelity impacted their marriage, and the pivotal moments that set them on a path to recovery. They discuss the development of their intimacy framework, 'The Intimacy Pyramid,' which guides couples from honesty to a deeply connected relationship. The dialogue underscores the role of faith, the importance of mutual honesty and trust, and the hard work necessary for relational healing. *To connect with Matthew & Joanna, visit raabsmithteam.comFollow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! [email protected]:00 Introduction and Welcome01:03 Meet Matthew and Joanna01:20 The Journey of Recovery02:14 Early Marriage Struggles04:28 The Turning Point06:12 Confession and Recovery07:25 Faith and Ministry Challenges16:04 Building Honesty and Safety21:59 Building Trust in Relationships22:47 The Role of Vulnerability25:00 Achieving Intimacy26:31 The Journey of Healing29:20 Steps to Rebuild Trust37:48 The Importance of Self-Regulation39:57 Resources and Support for Couples