Ep. 166: Stop Trying to Be Who You Were: The Identity Shift That Prepares You for More

This episode is for the woman who’s already done the work. She’s healed, built, and manifested what she once prayed for. But now, she’s standing in the in-between—no longer who she was, not yet fully stepped into who she’s becoming.In this conversation, I open up about the identity shift I’ve been walking through—specifically in motherhood—but this isn’t just about becoming a mom. It’s about becoming the version of yourself that can actually hold the life, love, and legacy you’ve been asking for.If you’re preparing for something sacred—whether it’s deeper partnership, expansion in business, motherhood, or a more aligned lifestyle—this episode will show you how to stop resisting the reinvention.Inside, I talk about:– Why “bouncing back” is keeping you stuck in a version of you that’s expired– How to surrender when the shift feels confronting– The truth about identity death, discipline, and divine timing– What it really means to become the woman your next level requiresThis is the call to stop performing for your past and start embodying your future. You’re not falling apart—you’re being rebuilt.Resources & Links:Apply for Soft x Savage Mastermind — My 12-month mastermind for those ready to build a legacyDM “SAVAGE” on Instagram — For direct access to details and bonusesLaura’s Amazon Favorites — My daily essentials for soft, savage leadershipConnect with Laura:Instagram: @itslaurapatriciamartinYouTube: @softxsavageSupport the Show:Love the episode? Subscribe, rate, and review to help more feminine leaders build 6-figure businesses with sales systems that feel like them.