Ep 17: Releasing Energy Patterns - with Jill Vyn

In this episode of How to Blow Up Your Life, Sara Stansberry is joined by empowerment coach Jill Vyn for a deeply honest conversation about old patterns — the familiar ways of thinking, behaving, and protecting ourselves that quietly resurface just as we’re trying to grow.Together, Sara and Jill explore how these patterns often emerge during moments of uncertainty, grief, or transition, bringing self-doubt and resistance along with them. Jill shares her personal experiences with fear, loss, and the emotional undercurrents that shaped her journey, offering a compassionate look at how grief can live in the body and influence our choices long after we think we’ve “moved on.”The conversation weaves together embodiment, visualization, and the power of community support, emphasizing that personal growth isn’t a solitary act of willpower — it’s a relational, embodied process. Sara and Jill unpack how trusting yourself often feels hardest right before a breakthrough, and why learning to notice, rather than shame, old patterns is what allows them to loosen their grip.This episode is an invitation to meet yourself with curiosity instead of criticism, to celebrate small wins along the way, and to trust that letting go of what no longer serves you creates space for something new to emerge.Key Topics CoveredHow old patterns of thought and behavior resurfaceResistance as a response to fear and uncertaintyEmbodiment as a tool for personal growthThe impact of grief on behavior and self-trustSelf-worth and identity during transitionsVisualization as a way to shift limiting beliefsThe role of community in healing and growthCelebrating progress instead of perfectionTrusting the unfolding process of changeEpisode TakeawaysOld patterns can reappear unexpectedly and trigger self-doubtEmbodiment reconnects the mind and body in healingCommunity support is essential during growth and transitionResistance often points to fear of the unknownSelf-worth shapes how we interpret challengesGrief can quietly influence patterns and behaviorsVisualization helps rewire limiting thought loopsSmall victories deserve acknowledgment and celebrationTrusting yourself is a practice, not a destinationReleasing old patterns creates space for new opportunitiesLooking AheadAs Season 2 continues, Sara deepens these conversations by exploring how awareness, embodiment, and relational support help us break free from inherited and habitual patterns — allowing us to build lives rooted in choice rather than fear.DisclaimerAlways seek the counsel of a qualified medical and/or mental health practitioner or other healthcare provider for individual consultation before making any significant changes to your health or lifestyle, or to address specific medical conditions. This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. Get full access to How To Blow Up Your Life at sarastansberry.substack.com/subscribe