EP 173: The receiving-gap: Why high-performing women self-sabotage when life gets real good & struggle to go 10x

In this episode, I’m diving into the receiving and identity gap — aka why high-performing women can be incredibly skilled at creating massive career success, but struggle to actually receive, sustain and expand the life they’ve worked so hard to create.We’re talking about nervous system capacity, self-trust, identity shifts, detachment, desire, receivership and what it really means to become a woman who can hold more without sabotaging what she asked for.Inside this episode, we explore:How to expand your nervous system capacity to hold moreThe identity gap between your current reality and your next levelWhy you might actually be afraid of hope — and how to let yourself want moreDetachment, desire & becoming the woman who can receive and sustain her next levelWhy ambitious women are so good at making sh*t happen — but often struggle with receiving—Timestamps:00:00 - 02:21 Episode intro + the identity gap, explained02:21 - 10:50 Life update, lessons & letting yourself receive more10:50 - 17:14 Creating, receiving, and expanding your capacity for MORE17:14 - 25:30 When ambition switches your nervous-system into survival mode25:30 - 33:14 Why receiving can feel unsafe for high-performing women33:14 - 46:51 Closing the identity gap and allowing life to be real good46:51 - 59:48 Hope, desire, detachment, and living a life of overflow59:48 - 70:50 Sustaining your next level without sabotaging—Similar episodes: EP 167: The hidden reason you can't receive more love, money & successEP 164: How to be 'that girl' who always gets what she wants - fusing 'IT girl' x 'magnetic queen' energy—Connect with Laura: Laura’s Website: https://www.lauraherde.com/Laura’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laura.herde/Laura’s 1-1 Coaching: https://www.lauraherde.com/application-1-1Laura’s Coaching Certification Course: https://www.instagram.com/embodiedcoachacademy/>> EMAIL ME TO CONNECT/ FOR QUESTIONS: [email protected]>> FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM FOR MORE CONTENT: @laura.herde Feel free to share this episode with your bestie, and tag us on IG when you listen so we can repost you.If you’re a loyal listener and would like to support the show, leave us a rating/ review, it means the world!Make sure to be subscribed to UNFUCK YOUR LIFE, we publish episodes for you every single Tuesday.Thank you so much for tuning in, love xx