Ep. 173 - WHAT? Pornography is a Christian Epidemic? How Can That Be? w/ Dr. Paula Hall

Click here to text us your thoughts and questions!Pornography is often spoken about as a problem "out there" in the culture, but what if the reality is much closer to home? In this candid and compassionate episode of Theology for the Curious, we sit down with sexual and relationship psychotherapist Paula Hall to explore one of the most significant yet often hidden challenges facing the modern church. Drawing on years of clinical experience, Paula helps us understand why pornography use is as prevalent within Christian communities as it is outside them and why so many believers find themselves trapped in cycles of shame, secrecy, and repeated failure. We discuss the statistics that reveal the scale of the issue, challenge the assumption that this is a struggle limited to a small minority, and unpack the important distinctions between occasional use, problematic pornography use, compulsive sexual behaviour disorder, and addiction. Along the way, we explore the psychological and neurological shifts that can move someone from recreational use to compulsive patterns, the role that emotional pain and coping mechanisms often play, and the profound tension many Christians experience between their values and their behaviour. Paula also helps us understand the difference between impulse control problems and genuine addiction, offering practical insight into how these issues can be identified and addressed. We explore the often-overlooked impact on spouses and loved ones, discussing the pain, betrayal, and confusion that can accompany these struggles, and the liberating truth behind the "three Cs"—you can't control it, you didn't cause it, and you can't cure it. Yet this conversation is far from hopeless. We conclude by exploring Paula's framework for recovery and lasting change, offering a realistic but deeply hopeful vision for freedom, healing, and restoration. Whether you are struggling personally, supporting someone who is, or simply seeking to understand this issue more clearly, this episode offers wisdom, honesty, and hope in equal measure.Further ReadingHere’s a bit of homework for you….we’ve included a few articles that compliment this episode….https://thelaurelcentre.co.ukhttps://fightthenewdrug.org/#the-issuehttps://www.covenanteyes.comWhat we’re reading?As a feature to our notes, we are adding the book or books that we’ve browsed related to this episode…enjoy! Paula Hall—Understanding and Treating Sex and Pornography Addiction Jay Springer—Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing Michael John Cusick—Surfing for God  Patrick Carnes—Out of The Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction Send your questions or thoughts to: [email protected] us on Instagram @theologyforthecuriousFind us on TikTok: @theologyforthecurious