Ep 18 | Reconnecting Heart and Spirit: The Journey Home | Highly Sensitive Series

This is part seven of the Highly Sensitive Series, titled "Reconnecting Heart and Spirit: The Journey Home." It is the first part of the spirit series. In this conversation, I speak to the question many sensitive women ask: "Why do I feel so different? Why am I too much? Why can't I just be normal?" Companion Blog Article&nbsp;Highly Sensitive Series (Part 7 of 9): Reconnecting Heart and Spirit – The Journey Home (Spirit Series 1 of 3)&nbsp;read the blog here I share the truth that the high sensitivity trait is normal yet invisible. It is an innate survival strategy found in roughly twenty to thirty percent of the population. I explain the concept of differential susceptibility: how we excel in supportive environments and struggle in unsupportive ones. I also speak to the full range of our emotional experience, from the highest peaks of awe and appreciation to the deepest valleys of grief and shame, and why trusting ourselves is the most important piece of the journey home. If you have ever questioned why you feel things so deeply, if you have been told to "get it together" or "be normal," if you are ready to reconnect with your heart and spirit after years of bracing, if you are looking for a space where you do not have to apologize for your sensitivity, this conversation is for you. What Arose in This Conversation Normal Yet Invisible: The high sensitivity trait is not a defect. It is a normal, yet invisible, temperament trait. Whether you have it or not, you are normal. But for the twenty to thirty percent who have it, the world feels different. We observe, we pause, we process deeply. Differential Susceptibility: This is the core of the trait. When we are in healthy, supportive environments, we have the ability to excel above those who do not have the trait. When we are in unsupportive, unacknowledged environments, we struggle more. The environment truly matters. The Full Range of Emotion: As highly sensitive individuals, we experience the full spectrum of emotion more deeply. We can feel the highest highs of awe and celebration, and the lowest lows of grief and shame. This is not a weakness. It is the capacity of our sensory intelligence. What Someone Else Thinks Is None of My Business: When we question ourselves, we are often looking outside. But the most important thing is how we view ourselves. If someone else's perspective does not align with our truth, it is a projection of their own level of understanding. It is about them, not us. The Cost of Bracing: For decades, I lived with a nervous system on high alert. I thought I was just a high-strung person. I didn't realize I was in a chronic sympathetic stress response. This uses up our energy, ages us more quickly, and prevents us from accessing our greatest creative potential. Reconnecting with the Present Moment: I share my experience of taking three days to relax on a cruise because my nervous system was so stressed. Bringing myself into the present moment was foreign. But when we tend to our daily needs, we can relax, breathe slower, and feel safe. The Journey Home: The journey home is to know and trust ourselves. It is to understand our neuroanatomy, our mind, our body, and our spirit. It is to realize that we are connected to something greater and that we deserve to tend to our unique needs without permission. Environmental Factors: We are exposed to more than previous generations. Glyphosate, light pollution, social media, news cycles. As sensitive beings, we experience the impact on our nervous system faster. We must assess our environment and care for our wholeness. <str