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EPISODE · Mar 11, 2026 · 36 MIN

Ep. 18 The Third Person In The Relationship......Social Media

from Mom Is My Emergency Contact Podcast · host Lisa

What happens when love turns into a brand and your audience becomes your boss? We sit down with therapist, author, and toxic relationship specialist Matt Phifer to unpack how influencer culture reshapes romance, dating, parenting, and mental health. From performative authenticity to the economics of engagement, we explore why perfectly curated couples and “effortless” motherhood get rewarded online and the quiet ways that reward system erodes trust and self-worth offline.TakeawaysSocial media has transformed relationships into content and performance.Influencers face immense pressure to maintain a perfect image.The audience's expectations can create a toxic environment for influencers.Relationships can become transactional when tied to social media engagement.Influencer culture can lead to unrealistic standards for parenting and family life.The psychological impact of social media can lead to feelings of inadequacy and depression.Taking breaks from social media is essential for mental health.Authenticity is crucial in navigating the influencer landscape.Influencer moms often feel pressured to present an idealized version of motherhood.Comparison to curated lives can distort personal realities. About Matt:Matt is a therapist, an author, toxic relationship specialist, and podcaster. He is a social media influencer that has recently put his focus on "Criminal Motives". This is where he dives into true crime stories and provides his perspective. Connect with MattInstagram TikTok YouTube Podcast Send us Fan MailHost:LisaWatch us on YouTubeVisit us at our websiteAnd FOLLOW us onInstagram FacebookTikTok🚨Send us your Too Crazy To Be True Story. This is that crazy story about that crazy friend, or terrible date, that is too crazy to believe. [email protected]🔥🔥AFTER HOURS Come join me behind the scenes ...where the mic is off and the conversation continues! Subscribe for FREE HERE

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What happens when love turns into a brand and your audience becomes your boss? We sit down with therapist, author, and toxic relationship specialist Matt Phifer to unpack how influencer culture reshapes romance, dating, parenting, and mental health. From performative authenticity to the economics of engagement, we explore why perfectly curated couples and “effortless” motherhood get rewarded online and the quiet ways that reward system erodes trust and self-worth offline. Takeaways Social m...

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