EP 188 — Christopher Ryan: Sex and Relationships

Episode 188 of the Spirit Gym with Paul Chek podcast, hosted by Paul Chek, titled "EP 188 — Christopher Ryan: Sex and Relationships" was published on May 10, 2022 and runs 155 minutes.

May 10, 2022 ·155m · Spirit Gym with Paul Chek

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Summary

Paul has talked about Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray and What It Means For Modern Relationships so much since starting his Living 4D podcast series more than three years ago, it was long overdue to check in with the book’s influential author, Christopher Ryan. Chris shares the journey to led him to write Sex at Dawn and describes our very human and complicated relationship with sex in this career-spanning Living 4D conversation. Learn more about Chris' work on his website and so...

Episode Description

Paul has talked about Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray and What It Means For Modern Relationships so much since starting his Living 4D podcast series more than three years ago, it was long overdue to check in with the book’s influential author, Christopher Ryan.

Chris shares the journey to led him to write Sex at Dawn and describes our very human and complicated relationship with sex in this career-spanning Living 4D conversation.

Learn more about Chris' work on his website and social media via Twitter and Instagram. Listen to his Tangentially Speaking podcast on Substack.

Show Notes

How Chris’ assumptions about the sexes and sex fell apart. (9:05)
Changing the cultural narrative about sex and coupling by examining hunter-gatherer societies. (17:29)
Emotional obesity. (38:08)
Are women now more interested in relationships with other women than men? (44:29)
Comparing emotional and sexual monogamy. (1:02:33)
Monogamy versus polygamy versus polyamory. (1:10:02)
Ethical non-monogamy. (1:16:41)
How can we use sex to cement interconnected relationships within a community? (1:27:21)
When Chris realized he was non-monogamous. (1:36:01)
Being sexual, an adult and a good example to your kids. (1:40:18)
Libido: The essential energy for life. (1:51:15)
Chris says Dan Savage is responsible the success of Sex at Dawn. (2:11:57)
Pleasure cannot be monetized. (2:14:54)
“When you’re lived a false life, either you’re wanting someone to tell you the truth or you’re desperate for them not to…” (2:27:07)

Resources

Civilized to Death: The Price of Progress by Christopher Ryan
Joseph Campbell and The Power of Myth series with Bill Moyers audiobook series
The Moral Animal: Why We Are The Way We Are by Robert Wright
Mama’s Last Hug: Animal Emotions and What They tell us About Ourselves by Frans de Waal
Robert Wright on evolutionary psychology
Voices of the First Day by Robert Lawlor
The work of Dr. John Sarno and Dr. Clare Graves

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