Ep. 19: Bold or Soft — Why Women Don't Have to Choose

For years women have been told they must choose who they are.Be bold and driven… or be soft and surrendered.In this episode, Crystal and Laken explore the tension many women feel between ambition and softness, unpacking the all-or-nothing patterns that keep us swinging between girlboss grind culture and rest-and-receive messaging.Through nervous system awareness, identity work, and honest conversation, they show how sustainable growth actually lives in the middle — where drive and softness can coexist.Because the truth is, you don’t have to choose.Follow along, tune in, and let’s get into your next mindset shift!It means the world to us if you would rate, like, save, share, and most importantly hit that subscribe button! And if something you heard today hit home for you, share it with your world. There is plenty of room at our table.She looks like she has it together.But inside, she’s tired of being the strong one.Peace. Play. Love. is for her.A retreat where the armor comes off,the nervous system softens,and self-trust becomes the loudest voice in the room.June 2026.This is your pause and your pivot.Check out our Women’s Retreat we are hosting —The Peace.Play.Love Retreat Deets: https://offers.thatgirlmagic.co/ppl-retreatRequest A Remix! If you’re stuck or in a situation you want a new lens on, submit your dilemma anonymously below for a mindset remix from us on a future podcast episode!https://links.ivorey.io/widget/form/Wv3Q0a53AuzjoNDgLvxVFollow us on IG: @[email protected]@coachlakenWebsite: www.thatgirlmagic.co Ways to work with us: Book a Connection CallConnection Call - Crystalhttps://links.ivorey.io/widget/bookings/crystal-connectioncallConnection Call - Lakenhttps://links.ivorey.io/widget/bookings/laken-connectioncallFollow along, tune in, and let’s get into your next mindset shift!It means the world to us if you would rate, like, save, share, and most importantly hit that subscribe button! And if something you heard today hit home for you, share it with your world. There is plenty of room at our table.She looks like she has it together.But inside, she’s tired of being the strong one.Request A Remix! If you’re stuck or in a situation you want a new lens on, submit your dilemma anonymously below for a mindset remix from us on a future podcast episode!Follow us on IG: @thatgirlmagic.co - @i.am.crystal.clear - @coachlakenwww.thatgirlmagic.co Ways to work with us: Book With Crystal - Book With Laken