Ep 20 - Happiness in Your Second Half Depends on Alignment
from Wiser with Rob Bialostocki Hosted by Rob Bialostocki
Do you feel discontent in your relationships, career, or daily life at times, despite outwardly having what you want? The answer often lies in a values problem - a misalignment between what we truly value deep down, and how we actually live. When our behaviours don't match our core values, we can experience tension, which can look like unhappiness, stress, or even physical symptoms. In this episode, we discuss why this happens, give some examples to illustrate, and suggest how you can close the gap. Key Points Our behaviour reveals our actual values, regardless of what we claim to value. Values conflicts are often the root cause of relationship problems and career dissatisfaction. Signs of values misalignment include persistent unhappiness, stress, and sometimes physical symptoms. Two main solutions: either adjust your stated values to match reality or change your situation to align with your values. The importance of brutally honest self-reflection in identifying what’s truly important to you. How to navigate values differences in relationships through communication and compromise. Why temporary discomfort during values realignment leads to long-term fulfilment. Practical steps for bringing your daily choices into harmony with what matters most to you. Any thoughts or questions? Send me a message! Support the show FREE COMPANION GUIDE TO THIS EPISODE Download your beautifully-produced show notes, examples and exercises to help you get more out of the material. Click here to subscribe to Companion Guides. (If you've previously subscribed to these, I will have already emailed it to you.) See you again soon. Rob --------------------------- I'm Rob Bialostocki and I write, present and teach about living a life that matters and growing wiser in the process. SUPPORT THE SHOW This is an ad-free, sponsor-free podcast and I want to keep it that way. So, if this has been helpful in any way why not add a small donation to help keep the podcast going and growing? I really appreciate your support. GET A WEEKLY WISDOMETTE A short, free email with a message that matters. Subscribe to Wisdomettes here. #LivingaLifeThatMatters #SecondHalfofLife #Your50s #Your60s #IntentionalLiving #GrowingWiser #PersonalGrowth #MidlifeTransition
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Do you feel discontent in your relationships, career, or daily life at times, despite outwardly having what you want? The answer often lies in a values problem - a misalignment between what we truly value deep down, and how we actually live. When our behaviours don't match our core values, we can experience tension, which can look like unhappiness, stress, or even physical symptoms. In this episode, we discuss why this happens, give some examples to illustrate, and suggest how you can c...
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