Ep #201: Conflict Avoidance: The Unexpected Reason Your Physical Intimacy is Suffering

Welcome, dear listeners! Todd Creager here, ready to dive into a topic that's crucial for every relationship but often swept under the rug. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the surprising connection between conflict avoidance and physical intimacy. As a couples therapist, I've seen firsthand how avoiding tough conversations can put a damper on your sex life. But don't worry – I'm here to help you understand why this happens and what you can do about it!Tune in to discover:• The hidden intimacy killer that might be lurking in your relationship• How being "healthfully selfish" can reignite your passion• Practical tips to overcome conflict avoidance and improve your connection• Real-life examples of how facing conflicts head-on can transform your sex life• The neurobiological link between conflict and libido (don't worry, I'll keep it simple!)Whether you're struggling with intimacy or just want to keep your connection strong, this episode is packed with insights that could transform your relationship. I'll share personal stories, client experiences (keeping everything confidential, of course), and give you actionable advice you can start using today.So, grab your partner (or listen solo – that's okay too!) and join me as we make the world safer for love, one conversation at a time. Trust me, your future self (and your partner) will thank you for tuning in. Let's dive in and start building the passionate, connected relationship you deserve!Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a coach, sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  LINKS:Rekindle  those passionate, sexy feelings you both felt when you first met with Todd’s Secrets to a Sexy Marriage guide:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secretsGet Todd’s proven principles that will help you  make your marriage work and sustainable for the long haul with his guide:  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYMHaven’t left a review yet? All you have to do is go to:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lets-talk-about-love-sex-infidelity/id1492757242 and we appreciate your support of this show! If this episode resonates with you, please share it with someone who could benefit and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more couples who are ready to transform their lives.Check out my complete program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" for more in-depth guidance: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTodd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  HELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYMBe...