Ep. 202 Are You Pushing or Pulling Yourself To Your Goals? There's A Difference

I was baby-sitting a 5-year-old girl (NOT my perfect little niece from this video) when I found myself shocked into silence… ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣My goal to get her to take a shower suddenly felt unimportant as I watched her stand in front of the mirror, put her hands on her cute little 5-year-old belly, and say ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣“I’m fat.”⁣⁣⁣⁣No idea how to respond (I was 16 at the time), I defaulted to “don’t say that!”⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Of course, considering I was talking to a 5 year old, this just prompted a “why?”⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I too thought “why?”⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣WHY is a FIVE year old girl picking apart her body?⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I was very familiar with the struggles of comparing my body to other girls in high school, ⁣⁣finding myself wearing looser shirts and positioning myself in photos to hide the parts of my body I was ashamed of… ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣But this was when I first realized just how much diet culture and negative body talk affect us.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣When women say “I can’t eat that” or “I’m on a diet”… girls hear that too.⁣⁣⁣This has always been a deep driver for me as a coach…⁣⁣⁣⁣Despite the 1000+ women my team and I have coached over the last 5 years, I was NOT put on this earth to help women lose weight.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣I was put on this earth to help women LOVE their bodies by HEALING them. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Is weight loss often a part of that journey toward health? For sure!⁣⁣ And our girls are dang proud of the external transformations they achieve. ⁣⁣But these transformations come from a place of LOVE and wanting to give ourselves the gift of consistent energy, regular PMS-free cycles, freedom to eat foods without fear of GI issues… not from a place of self-hate or shame.⁣ In this episode, we'll discuss how to pull yourselves toward your goals in a positive way rather than being pushed by ego or in negative ways. This is a powerful mindset shift to head into the new year with and we hope you start adopting it today!  Time Stamps:  (0:42) Shared A Recent Story On Instagram (5:45) Pulling Ourselves Into The Positive (8:45) Imagine You Are Talking To A 5 Year Old (15:55) Our Individualized Approach---------------------Follow @vanessagfitness on Instagram for daily fitness tips & motivation. ---------------------Download Our FREE Metabolism-Boosting Workout Program---------------------Join the Women’s Metabolism Secrets Facebook Community for 25+ videos teaching you how to start losing fat without hating your life!---------------------Click here to send me a message on Facebook and we’ll see how I can help or what best free resources I can share!---------------------Interested in 1-on-1 Coaching with my team of Metabolism & Hormone Experts? Apply Here!---------------------Check out our Youtube Channel!---------------------Enjoyed the podcast? Let us know what you think and leave a 5⭐️ rating and review on iTunes!