Ep 205: Finding a Mentor / The Mess of Mentoring Series Day 2 with Amy Ayala and Bianca Juarez

Finding a mentor often brings immense pressure, especially when you realize you have no idea what you’re actually looking for - or worse, who to trust with your growth. If you’ve ever felt the tension of wanting to grow as a leader but feeling stuck, this episode is for you. In Day 2 of our mentoring series, Amy Ayala and I went deep into the "heart" of mentorship. It’s not just about who has the biggest platform or the most followers on social media; it’s about character, resilience, and that prophetic "X-factor" that you can't teach. Amy and I talked openly about the importance of being "seen" by a mentor and why loyalty, honor, and the willingness to put in the "reps" are what actually prepare you for your next season. Whether you are looking to be mentored or you are ready to start pouring into someone else, we’re breaking down what it actually looks like to lead well. You cannot be what you don’t see, so let’s talk about how to open your eyes to the right potential. Tag us @biancajuarezofficial and @amylynnettee on social and tell me your biggest takeaway. I love hearing how these episodes are impacting your journey! If you enjoyed this talk, please make sure to like and subscribe so you never miss an episode. Love you, B Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to Mentoring Series 00:26 What to Look for in a Mentee 02:02 The Heart of a Mentee: Loyalty and Love for the Church 03:04 The Prophetic Edge in Mentoring 04:26 The Danger of Building Platforms Without Substance 06:18 Resilience and Making Things Happen 07:16 Transitioning to New Seasons of Leadership 08:44 The Impact of Social Media and Public Presence 11:12 The Power of Being Seen and Mentored by Influential Leaders 14:24 The Significance of Women Leaders and Role Models 17:36 The Value of Mentorship and Being Seen 20:46 Practical Hallmarks for Mentorship 22:11 The Importance of Honor and Self-Awareness 23:39 Developing Skills and Reps in Ministry 27:16 Next Steps for Aspiring Leaders 30:01 The Power of Preparation and Repetition 32:03 The Role of Spirit-Led Preaching and Communication 33:32 The Joy of Smiling and Connecting in Ministry Resources & Links Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Support  Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  WGT Email: [email protected] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/  Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef  BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp Youtube: https://youtu.be/2cGHG544Hag Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices