Ep. 23: Intimacy Isn't Romance, It's Literacy

We talk about intimacy like it's chemistry.Like its luck.Like it's something you either "have"... or you don't. But what if intimacy isn't romance at all?What if it's literacy?In this pre-valentine's episode of Fluent AF, we unpack how language shapes attachment, why so many of us "love hard" and still feel unseen, and how the way we speak to ourselves become the blueprint for every relationship we enter. Because maybe you're not bad at love. Maybe nobody ever taught you the words.We talk: emotional vocabulary, self-talk and attachment styles, why familiar doesn't mean healthy, Valentine's Day and the commercialization of being chosen , and yes, a little RuPaul wisdom.If you've ever said "I'm fine" when you weren't... this one's for you.Fluent AF is where language, culture, and identity collide. PRESS PLAY NOW!#episode23 #romance #intimacy #language #fluentafofficial