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EPISODE · Jun 22, 2026 · 26 MIN

Ep. 247: This Is Everything: Gay Men, Aging & the Skin Obsession Nobody Talks About

from Everything & Anything...and a bit gay Podcast · host Zach Randes-Friedman

Episode Notes: Let's be real — the gay community has a complicated relationship with age. And Zach is done pretending otherwise. In this episode of This Is Everything, Zach reflects on the journey every gay man eventually takes: from the invincible 20-something who thought 35 was ancient, to the 53-year-old still showing up, still looking good, and still absolutely judging the 21-year-olds walking in like they own the place. In this episode, Zach covers: Growing up in Miami and living his best twink life in South Beach going out six or seven nights a week The exact moment in his 30s at Wonder Bar in New York City when it hit him — oh shit, I'm not the young one anymore The infamous "old troll" comment he and his friend Tony made on the dance floor at Amnesia — and how karma came for both of them Why gay men aging feels a lot more like straight women aging than straight men aging His full skincare arsenal: Botox, microneedling, salmon sperm facials, and his newest obsession — Plated Skin Science, a serum powered by over one trillion platelet-derived exosomes developed by Mayo Clinic physician-scientists Why he'll never do fillers (except for the lips, which doesn't count, apparently) Dressing your age without looking like you've given up — and why he gave his oversized sweaters to his husband The unexpected upside of being 53 in the age of AI About Plated Skin Science: Zach just started using the Plated INTENSE Serum and EYE Serum. Plated is the #1 dermatologist-recommended exosome brand, developed through 20+ years of Mayo Clinic research. The INTENSE Serum contains over 1 trillion platelet-derived exosomes per bottle and is clinically proven to reduce the appearance of fine lines, wrinkles, dark spots, and uneven tone. Time Magazine named it one of the Best Inventions of 2024. Learn more at platedskinscience.com.  💬 Have your own "holy shit I'm getting older" gay bar moment? Tell Zach about it. 📩 DM on Instagram or drop a comment.https://www.instagram.com/therealzachre/ 🎙️ Everything & Anything…and a Bit Gay drops new episodes five days a week. Subscribe, rate, and review wherever you listen — it genuinely helps more than you know.   Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this week's This Is Everything segment, Zach gets brutally honest about something every gay man goes through but nobody wants to say out loud: the moment you realize you're not the young one at the bar anymore. From his South Beach twink days going out six nights a week, to standing on the dance floor in his 30s having an existential crisis, to spending $385 on a serum made from donated platelets — Zach takes you through the full arc of gay male aging with zero filter and a whole lot of laughs.

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