Ep 25 - The three step process on how to repair your money relationship

***Quick Announcement*** If you haven’t heard yet, I created a course. Like, a really f*cking amazing course. Like, a very different, very impactful course. I created The Money Course because money is the #1 stressor for folks out there. But it doesn’t have to be. You can make lots of money. You can have a great relationship with money. You just need to learn how. This course is a container of healing, education, and transformation. When you sign up, you enter a new world of money mentality, attitude, and ability. TMC is open for enrollment until 3/14 then it is CLOSED and won't reopen for another few months. You can read all the details and see if it’s right for you: www.scottietaylorjr.com/money ***Let's get into the Episode*** We talk a lot about money, and beliefs we feel, stressors we experience, and anxiety that comes up. Right now, I want to talk with you about what it looks like to repair/improve your relationship with money (and I say repair in a positive, healthy way -- we’re not broken, and nothing needs to be “fixed” -- it’s all simply growth). Maybe you grew up in a family that said things like “we can’t afford that” or “money doesn’t grow on trees” Or maybe your family fought about money when the bills came. Maybe you went to school each year and wore hand me downs while other kids had newer things. Or maybe you never really had any traumatic experiences, but your family was “middle class” and you never had an experience of massive wealth in your life. It was always “the rich people down the street” and “us” Regardless of what you experienced when you were younger, these things impact us. Our experiences as kids growing up shape our view of money. We have that friend down the street that “dares us to eat that expired jar of mayo for $100 bucks!” As harmless as these all seem, these interactions mold what we think, how we believe, and how money gets to work for us. We end up putting money on a pedestal. Money must be revered. We want money, but then we have internal tension that wanting money makes us greedy, or selfish. But at the end of the day, money is just energy. And we have a relationship with money. And just like your relationships with your partner, family, and friends, your relationship with money is sacred and must be nurtured. So, people sometimes wonder: What does it look like when I start to work on my money relationship? Here’s what happens you decide to repair/improve our relationship with money. Step 1: We start to become aware of the stories that playout in our lives. When we become aware, we can then start to become curious of our thoughts and viewpoints on money Step 2: We realize that things GET to feel good. You get to have a great relationship with money. You decide it’s safe, healthy, and beneficial to the WORLD for you to make more money. Step 3: We identify, and reframe our beliefs into a new reality Your path to a healthy, happy relationship with money is in your highest good. It’s benefiting the world.