Ep 26 What if the other sports parents are way more intense than us?

https://heysammi.com/  is it normal to feel out of place among intense sports parents? a mom in austin wrote to me because her family feels like the odd one out on a team where parents film warmups and talk college timelines about fourth graders. in this episode i split her question in two, because is this the wrong team for us and is this the wrong team for her can have completely different answers. i explain how to tell a team problem from a bleacher problem by watching your kid instead of the parents, why the kid culture and the parent culture aren't always the same weather, and the cheap solutions for surviving an unbearable sideline. then the warning signs that intensity is leaking onto the field: kids quoting rankings, talking about falling behind, and breathing adult anxiety. i also cover the pull nobody names, the way watching other families spend more and drive further starts to feel like the standard. it isn't. it's just the loudest option. orange slices, one practice a week, and free sundays is not falling behind. it's a childhood, and somebody in that league should get to have one. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices