Ep. 28 - Marriage, Sex Addiction & Owning Your Pussy with Yella Werder

Rachel Wilson welcomes Yella Werder for an intimate, wise, and deeply honest conversation on marriage, sex addiction, feminine power, and the long road to sacred intimacy. Married for decades and seasoned by both devotion and betrayal, Yella shares candidly about her experience of sex and love addiction, the affair that nearly broke her marriage, and the spiritual recovery that ultimately transformed it.Together, Rachel and Yella explore the difference between pleasure and power, manipulation and sovereignty, and what it means to reclaim ownership of your body after a lifetime of shame and taboo. Yella speaks openly about discovering orgasm later in life, learning to communicate desire inside a long-term partnership, and how true intimacy required her to merge her heart and her sexuality, no longer allowing one without the other.They also dive into menopause, religious roots, patriarchal conditioning, and the cultural silencing of women’s bodies. From clitoral anatomy to sacred devotion, this conversation weaves humor, heartbreak, and hard-won wisdom into a powerful reflection on what becomes possible when a woman finally says: this pussy is mine.Vulnerable, provocative, and deeply affirming, this episode invites listeners to slow down, speak up, and trust that healing even inside long-term marriage is possible.