Ep 284 – You’re Trying to Control the Wrong Things

Meta DescriptionStoic leadership teaches control drives clarity in decision making. Scott Smith explains how founders reduce stress by focusing only on what they can control.🎙️ Episode Summary“Some things are up to us, and some things are not.” — EpictetusStoicism and Stoic leadership center on one principle that directly impacts decision making: control. For founders and executives, much of their stress does not come from the work itself—but from focusing on outcomes they cannot control.In this episode, Scott Smith breaks down how pressure escalates when leaders shift their attention away from their actions and toward uncertain results. Questions about outcomes—approval, success, or failure—pull attention outside the zone of control, creating anxiety and hesitation.Drawing from Epictetus’ core Stoic teaching, this episode reframes leadership clarity. Your effort, decisions, and response are always within your control. Outcomes are not. When leaders reverse this—obsessing over results while neglecting action—they feel powerless, even when they are not.This is Stoic leadership for founders and executives: the discipline to pull focus back to what is actionable. When attention is grounded in what can be controlled, execution becomes cleaner, decisions become faster, and pressure begins to fade.Control is not about managing more. It is about managing the right things.🧠 What You’ll Learn Today• Why focusing on outcomes creates unnecessary stress in leadership• The Stoic distinction between what is and isn’t within your control• How misplaced control leads to hesitation and overthinking• Why disciplined focus improves decision making and execution• How to regain clarity by narrowing attention to your actions🔍 TagsStoicism, Stoic Leadership, Decision Making, Leadership Discipline, Founder Mindset, Business Resilience, Strategic Thinking, Epictetus, Executive LeadershipSupport the show—The Stoic Inner Strategy is a leadership podcast for founders, executives, and other leaders who carry significant responsibility, even when they have a capable team around them.Hosted by Scott Smith, Principal Advisor and founder of Akhada Consulting, each episode explores the judgment, discipline, and leadership capacity required to make sound decisions under pressure, develop stronger people, and build organizations that do not depend on one person carrying everything.Stoic wisdom provides the foundation, but the focus is practical: how to lead yourself, strengthen the people around you, and meet responsibility with clarity, courage, and character.New episodes are released every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, with occasional interviews and special episodes.If this episode helped you see your leadership more clearly, subscribe to the show and share it with another leader who carries the weight.Connect with Scott:Akhada Consulting: akhadaconsulting.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/scott8smithEmail: [email protected] Mori. Time is limited. Lead accordingly.