EP 289: 5 lessons I've learned the hard way as a Mum in business

Are you struggling to balance motherhood, business, and everything in between? In this heartfelt solo episode, I share lessons I wish I’d learned sooner about creating harmony, not perfection. I open up about the mistakes I made chasing success while missing precious everyday moments with my kids—and how I’m now redefining what truly matters. From my thoughts on the big picture to the everyday practical ideas, this episode offers honest insights for every parent juggling family and business. Whether you’re just starting out or are years into your journey, I hope these real and practical lessons will help you build a life that feels balanced, purposeful, and full of grace. You can have both—family and success—when you focus on what really counts. We’ll be talking about: ➡ [0:00] Introduction – My wake-up call and the lessons I’d forgotten ➡ [1:00] The myth of “having it all” and why harmony beats balance ➡ [3:00] The false belief that kids value success over presence ➡ [5:00] How painful experiences teach growth and perspective ➡ [7:00] Starting a business as a young mum and the guilt of getting it wrong ➡ [9:00] Realising that being “in the house” isn’t the same as being present ➡ [10:00] Lesson #1 – Be present, not perfect ➡ [11:00] Lesson #2 – Boundaries are king: separating work from home ➡ [15:00] The life-changing decision to move the office out of the home ➡ [16:00] Phone boundaries and being the example your kids follow ➡ [18:00] Lesson #3 – Kids value everyday presence more than grand gestures ➡ [20:00] Lesson #4 – Boys and girls connect differently: face-to-face vs side-by-side ➡ [22:00] Lesson #5 – Blended families and controlling what you can ➡ [24:00] Showing grace to yourself and others in the chaos of parenting ➡ [25:00] Every moment is a fresh start – start again now ➡ [27:00] How to prioritise what truly matters and let go of guilt ➡ [28:00] The small everyday moments that shape connection ➡ [29:00] Final thoughts – You can have both: business and motherhood in harmony   Resources: Free Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/socialmediafordirectsellerswithgregandsam/   Are you ready to keep growing? Learn more about joining the Auxano Family - https://go.auxano.global/welcome    Connect with Direct Selling Accelerator: ➡ Visit our website: https://www.auxano.global/ ➡ Subscribe to YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/DirectSellingAccelerator ➡ Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/auxanomarketing/ ➡ Sam Hind’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/samhinddigitalcoach ➡ Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/auxanomarketing ➡ Email us: [email protected]   If you have any podcast suggestions or things you’d like to learn about specifically, please send us an email at the address above. And if you liked this episode, please don’t forget to subscribe, tune in, and share this podcast. Are you ready to join the Auxano Family to get live weekly training, support and the latest proven posting strategies to get leads and sales right now - find out more here: https://go.auxano.global/welcome See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.The simple Humanology Framework for confidently turning conversations into customers without feeling pushy, awkward or scripted. Save your FREE seat here: https://auxano.me