Ep 29 | The doubt decoder: Turning imposter feelings into fuel with Mrs Kim Allen

What if imposter syndrome wasn't a flaw to fix… but a sign you're about to grow? In this powerful episode, Rebekah sits down with construction industry powerhouse and keynote speaker Mrs Kim Allen to unpack how imposter syndrome shows up in unexpected places, and what to do when it does. From high-vis job sites to high-pressure government meetings, Kim shares how she shifted from self-doubt to self-leadership in an industry that wasn't built with women in mind. They discuss identity, burnout, authenticity, and why changing your outer world starts by tuning in to your inner one. Whether you've ever felt like you don't belong, like you're faking it, or like your voice doesn't matter... this one's for you. What you'll learn from this episode: ✅ How imposter syndrome hides in plain sight — even in confident, capable leaders ✅ Why women often try to 'fit in' instead of stand out ✅ What it really means to show up as your authentic self (without losing your edge) ✅ How Kim rewrote the story of "the missus" and found power in her own name ✅ Simple mindset tools to navigate burnout, self-doubt, and misalignment ✅ Why values are your best filter for making decisions — in life and leadership Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome and intro to Kim Allen 03:12 – The story behind "Mrs Kim Allen" and reclaiming your title 06:35 – Kim's personal journey through imposter syndrome 11:44 – Why construction (and other industries) still struggle with inclusion 15:56 – Softness isn't weakness: redefining feminine leadership 18:55 – Recognising imposter syndrome when you've learned to mask it 22:32 – The "salesman in your brain" and the power of choice 27:40 – Values as the foundation: making aligned decisions 31:16 – How mindset work changed Kim's team culture (and her life) 35:08 – Climbing mountains in swimmers — literally 40:15 – Avoiding burnout by tuning in and taking responsibility 45:12 – Reclaiming your identity: what to do when you've "lost yourself" 50:04 – What success really means — and why fitting the mould isn't it Links and resources Join the Mind Masters Collective https://www.moonbeammonday.com.au/mind-masters Book a Connection Call with Rebekah to find out how coaching can help you https://bit.ly/connect-with-moonbeam Connect with Us https://moonbeammonday.com.au https://www.instagram.com/moonbeammonday/ https://www.facebook.com/moonbeammonday https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebekah-king00/ http://www.youtube.com/@moonbeammondaytrainingcoac4696 Find Kim Allen online https://mrskimallen.com.au/ https://www.instagram.com/mrskimallen_/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/kim-allen-a73681239/ Check out these FREE resources https://www.moonbeammonday.com.au/resources Join us every fortnight Tune in every fortnight as we delve into fascinating topics about the mind and the brain, because when you change your mind, you change your life. Subscribe and leave a review If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show so you never miss an episode and leave a review to help others find and enjoy our content.