EPISODE · May 21, 2026 · 13 MIN
Ep. 296 - Why Conversations In Your Marriage Aren't Leading To Resolution
from Marriage & Motherhood - How To Reconnect With Your Spouse After Kids · host Michelle Purta
Let us know how you enjoyed this episode!Just because you're talking things through with your partner, doesn't guarantee you're going resolve things.If you and your partner keep having the same conversations on repeat, this episode will help you understand why.So many couples think the issue is that they “just need to communicate more.” But what often happens is this:You try to talk.The conversation gets emotional.Someone feels criticized.Someone shuts down or gets defensive.You both get exhausted.And eventually… you stop talking about it.Not because the issue is resolved.But because you’re emotionally drained.In this episode, I break down why so many conversations never actually lead to resolution and what’s truly missing underneath repetitive conflict patterns.Tune in to hear me share:• Why avoidance often comes from emotional exhaustion, not lack of care• The difference between expressing feelings and actually resolving conflict• How “me vs you” thinking keeps couples stuck in repetitive cycles• Why emotional safety matters during difficult conversations• The shift that helps couples move from surviving conversations to solving problems together• Questions to ask yourself before and during conflict to create more productive conversationsIf your conversations with your partner feel heavy, repetitive, or emotionally draining, this episode will help you start approaching conflict differently so you can feel more connected, supported, and like a true team again.Resources MentionedDownload the Conflict to Connection Guide here!For more personalized support, book a clarity call to learn how marriage coaching can help you here!Thanks for listening!Connect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoachingIf you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage? Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)Support the show
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Let us know how you enjoyed this episode! Just because you're talking things through with your partner, doesn't guarantee you're going resolve things. If you and your partner keep having the same conversations on repeat, this episode will help you understand why. So many couples think the issue is that they “just need to communicate more.” But what often happens is this: You try to talk. The conversation gets emotional. Someone feels criticized. Someone shuts down or gets defensive. You bo...
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Ep. 296 - Why Conversations In Your Marriage Aren't Leading To Resolution
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