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EPISODE · May 28, 2026 · 11 MIN

Ep. 298 -  The Mindset Shift Needed To Stop Repeating Conflict Patterns In Your Marriage

from Marriage & Motherhood - How To Reconnect With Your Spouse After Kids · host Michelle Purta

Let us know how you enjoyed this episode!Trying to prove your point during conflict might actually be the thing keeping you disconnected.In this episode, I talk about the mindset shift that helps couples stop repeating the same arguments and start functioning like true partners again.If conversations in your marriage feel like power struggles, if you constantly feel misunderstood, or if every disagreement turns into defending yourself, this episode will help you understand why that happens and what to do instead.In this episode I break down: • Why the need to “be right” creates more distance in relationships • The difference between protecting your ego and protecting your partnership • How curiosity changes the entire tone of conflict • Why understanding your partner matters more than winning • How compassion and emotional safety lead to better conversations • What healthy partnership actually looks like during disagreementThis episode is especially helpful for couples who feel stuck in repetitive arguments, defensiveness, resentment, or communication breakdowns after kids.Resources Mentioned:• Grab the Conflict to Connection GuideFor more personalized support, book a clarity call to learn how marriage coaching can help you here!Thanks for listening!Connect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoachingIf you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage?  Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)Support the show

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Let us know how you enjoyed this episode! Trying to prove your point during conflict might actually be the thing keeping you disconnected. In this episode, I talk about the mindset shift that helps couples stop repeating the same arguments and start functioning like true partners again. If conversations in your marriage feel like power struggles, if you constantly feel misunderstood, or if every disagreement turns into defending yourself, this episode will help you understand why that happens...

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