Ep. 299 Day 5: Missing My Kids During the Holidays After Divorce

If you’re here today, it means your kids aren’t with you...and that absence lands in the body, not just the heart.This episode is for the moms navigating holidays, weekends, or long stretches without their children after divorce. The quiet. The ache. The way your nervous system doesn’t know where to settle when the people you’re bonded to aren’t home.Joy shares from lived experience what it’s like to be deeply, trauma-bonded to your children — through pregnancy, birth, illness, caregiving, and survival — and then suddenly have to function without them physically present.In this conversation, we talk about:Why missing your kids after divorce can feel physically destabilizingHow maternal bonding and trauma bonding affect the nervous systemThe urge to stay busy, numb out, or dissociate — and why that makes senseWhat actually helped during the hardest hours (movement, EFT tapping, nature, structure)Why “doing nothing” can feel unbearable — and what to do insteadA simple candle ritual to honor the bond when your kids aren’t with youHow to stay connected without collapsing or abandoning yourselfThis episode is not about fixing the grief or rushing you through it. It’s about staying present with the truth that their bodies may be absent — but their love is not.If you’re missing your kids today, you don’t have to disappear to survive it. You’re allowed to grieve and stay with yourself.🎄 About the 12 Days of Divorce ChristmasThe 12 Days of Divorce Christmas is a daily, nervous-system-first series created to support women through the holidays after divorce.✨ Days 1, 2, and 9 are available on the public feed.✨ The remaining days — including deeper support for grief, loneliness, and identity after divorce — are available inside Dear Divorce Diary Premium.If this episode helped you feel less alone, the rest of the series is there to hold you through the days that follow.Join Dear Divorce Diary Premium to access the full 12 Days of Divorce Christmas.Their love is not absent.And neither are you.Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawnInstagram: (@dawnwiggins)Instagram: (@coachtiffini)On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.comA podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.Support the showYou can't think your way into healing 🥵 You have to practice your way there 👭If you're ready for the next step, learn more about  A Different D Word and apply here ✨