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EPISODE · Apr 17, 2026 · 42 MIN

Ep.3: Who Am I, If I’m Not Who I Used to Be?

from Spill the Real Podcast · host Amanda Owen & Kristi Hayden

Finding Ourselves in MidlifeWhat happens when you wake up one day and realize… you’ve changed?In this episode of Spill the Real, we’re diving into identity in midlife—the quiet, sometimes uncomfortable realization that you’re not who you used to be… and maybe you’re not quite sure who you are yet either.But maybe that’s not a bad thing.We’re talking about:The life experiences that shape us without us even realizing itHow career shifts, motherhood, relationships, and loss redefine who we areLearning to take up space without guiltThe tension between who you’ve been and who you’re becomingReal Talk Check-In: What is a part of yourself that you are rediscovering?In this episode, we explore:Why identity in your 40s can feel both unsettling and freeingHow the roles we’ve carried can quietly disconnect us from ourselvesThe importance of creating space for who you are now—not just who you’ve always beenKey takeaway: You haven’t lost yourself—you’re evolving.Reflection question: What part of you is trying to come back?This isn’t advice—just real conversations from two women figuring it out in real time.Because if we don’t make room for ourselves… we risk losing ourselves.And the truth is—we’re not meant to walk this season alone.#SpillTheReal#PodcastForWomen#WomenInTheir40s#MidlifeConversations#RealTalkPodcast#FindingYourself#MidlifeIdentity#WhoAmIBecoming#IdentityShift#PersonalEvolution#SelfDiscoveryJourney

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