Ep. 312: Did the #metoo Movement Even Help Us?

What do we have to show for the #metoo movement? Were men benefited or hurt by the movement?Carter Sherman is an Emmy nominated reproductive health & justice reporter at The Guardian & author of the book The Second Coming. Her comprehensive review of sex, culture & policy combined with over 100 conversations with people about their sex lives made her uniquely qualified to unpack the good, the bad & the confusing of the #metoo movement. You’ll hear about false accusations vs. real assault rates, why “good men don’t do this” backfired, sex Ed's missed opportunity, vulnerability, therapy, and better sex.If you like this episode, you’ll also like episode 208: TRIGGER WARNINGS: MAKING US FRAGILE OR HELPING US HEAL? Guest:https://a.co/d/fBTWvsi https://www.instagram.com/heyyymizcarterhttps://www.carter-sherman.com/https://bsky.app/profile/cartersherman.bsky.social  Host:  https://www.meredithforreal.com/  https://www.instagram.com/meredithforreal/ [email protected]://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal  https://www.facebook.com/meredithforrealthecuriousintrovert  Sponsors: https://www.jordanharbinger.com/starterpacks/ https://www.historicpensacola.org/about-us/  02:00 — Story #1: the creepy guest04:00 — Story #2: when consent gets messy05:00 — Can Me Too prevent both extremes?06:00 — What Me Too did (and didn’t) change07:00 — A legacy without real policy08:00 — Fear on both sides of the spectrum09:00 — False accusations vs. real assault rates10:00 — Who’s doing the assaulting?11:00 — The “eye contact = consent” problem12:00 — Assault among men, too13:00 — Do some women misuse Me Too?14:00 — Why false reports are so rare15:00 — Modeling work and overlooked male consent16:00 — How hegemonic masculinity hurts men17:00 — Could Me Too have lifted all boats?18:00 — Why “good men don’t do this” backfired19:00 — Internet outrage vs. nuance20:00 — Is “pervert” a life sentence?21:00 — Cancellation: perception vs. reality22:00 — Who really pays the price of harassment23:00 — The ripple effect on women’s futures24:00 — Young people connecting the personal to politics26:00 — Why Me Too reforms focused on work, not sex27:00 — What legislation do we actually need?29:00 — Title IX and sexual harassment in schools30:00 — Enforcing protections in K–12, not just college31:00 — Sex ed failures: STDs, fear, no consent33:00 — Why talking to your kids matters34:00 — Local school boards and sex education battles37:00 — Why Gen Z is having less sex38:00 — Politics, anxiety, and intimacy colliding39:00 — Have the “rules” really changed?40:00 — Conversations as the simplest (but hardest) fix41:00 — Vulnerability, therapy, and better sex42:00 — Integrating politics and intimacy in the bedroomRequest to join my private Facebook Group, MFR Curious Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BAt3bpwJC/Follow me in all the places:https://www.meredithforreal.com/  https://www.instagram.com/the_curiousintrovert/ [email protected]://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal https://www.facebook.com/curiousintrovert