Ep 329: The myth of balance: the tension between structure and freedom in highly sensitive people

As a highly sensitive person, have you ever felt torn between the need for structure and the desire for freedom? Structure can make you feel safe with the predictability it offers ... except when your energy or interest doesn't match your schedule! This internal conflict can often leave us Highly Sensitive types feeling overwhelmed and unsure of how to proceed. In this episode of SelfKind, a podcast for Highly Sensitive People, I'm exploring this tension and why it can show up. You will hear:- Why, as a Highly Sensitive Person you might equally love and feel repelled by structure and discipline- Why your fluctuating energy levels don't always align with your schedule (and how that can bring challenges)- The impact of emotional overwhelm when you feel like you're failing at achieving all the things you need to do - How people pleasing shows up in trying to navigate your time and schedule- Why it's so important to 'adjust your sails' rather than find the 'perfect' way to schedule your time. About your host, Erica WebbErica Webb is a registered counsellor, somatic exercise coach, yoga teacher and highly sensitive person (also diagnosed AuDHD). She supports other highly sensitive and neurodivergent people to discover their sensitivity superpowers and more confidently navigate the tricky bits of being a sensitive person in an often insensitive world.About the Podcast, SelfKindSelfKind is for Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) who want to navigate the tricky bits of their sensitivity with more ease while finding their sensitivity superpowers. Here, we’re all about being, living and moving through a lens of self-compassion and kindness.📬 Connect with Erica:🌐 https://www.ericawebb.com.au📸 https://www.instagram.com/ericawebb_selfkind🤝 Want to work with me? Learn more here:https://www.ericawebb.com.au/work-with-meThe content I share on this platform is for informational and educational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. While I am a qualified counsellor, yoga teacher, and somatic coach, the information provided here does not constitute personal counselling, therapy, or a therapeutic relationship.If you're struggling with your mental health or need personalised support, I encourage you to reach out to a registered professional in your area.Always take what resonates, leave what doesn’t, and prioritise your wellbeing.