Ep. 338 - Why You Keep Choosing People Who Don’t Choose You | Divorce Patterns & Self-Worth

You don’t just “end up” in relationships where you’re not chosen.You were trained for them.In this VIP episode of Dear Divorce Diary, we unpack the deeply rooted pattern of waiting to be chosen—and why it doesn’t start in your marriage… it starts much earlier.We’re talking about: The childhood dynamics that quietly taught you to accept crumbs  How never being prioritized shapes who you choose (and tolerate)  Why “being chosen” feels safer than choosing for yourself  The nervous system fear that keeps you stuck in the same relationship patterns  How to start rebuilding your capacity to discern what you actually want This conversation goes beyond surface-level dating advice.Because this isn’t about finding a better partner.It’s about:learning how to choose yourself… even when it feels unfamiliar, uncomfortable, or scary.If you’ve ever: stayed too long  excused behavior you knew wasn’t right  or felt like you had to earn love This episode will hit close to home.And more importantly— it will show you where the pattern actually begins… and how to start changing it.Support the showYou can't think your way into healing 🥵 You have to practice your way there 👭If you're ready for the next step, learn more about  A Different D Word and apply here ✨