Ep. 34 “Self Care” vs Showing up to your Mission (WTF and what to do) w/Danelle Gallo

It's a psychedelic inquiry wormhole starringDanelle GalloI get my shining golden answer in this conversation and we get into the depth of how and why. You'll leave knowing...★ how to use witness as a powerful identity tool (horror and wonder included)★ how to expand the conditions that you're willing to show up and connect under★ and how to find your rhythm between "get paid to exist" and "grind for glory" cultureWe get into the question that has been haunting and taunting me all last month (AND answer it!!)When faced with uncomfortable circumstances, which are part of a cycle, but seem to clash with my devotion to the work (AKA it feels so hard to start and to connect). Do I go for it anyway, and just start and hope it will be enjoyable once I get into it??? OR do I create kind of a soft place to land, and then, once I feel better enter into the work? I love what I do but I also love not terrorising the parts of me that are afraid of visibility, especially when I’m not feeling my best or even anything close to that. But I want consistency and more reach… what is the way forward? So , I’m sharing this conversation that changed how I think about devotion and noticeably increased my practical access to purpose.Drop a comment if you’ve also been tangling with some of these questions lately, I would love to hear about it. AND Definitely check out Danelle's work on instagram at @nurse_nell She is a gem and a legend._______________About me: I’m Noelani, I am the Head Witch of The Scarlet Muse. I help magical people end patterns, eras, and identities with ritual and somatic integration. I am a trauma-informed Death Witch with a bottomless lust for connecting to consciousness, hermetics, and the Mystery. And I am devoted to creating tender and hardcore spaces for endings within a culture that tends to ignore them. My job as a Death Witch is to support you honouring and closing what has already been so that you can experience the return of your creative power and grow your magick I trust your Mystery,  paradox, and strangeness, I want more of it visible in the world. Doors to my work: 1:1 Death Witch Magick consults (free and fun and with tarot) - come if you are at a crossroads in your life - come if you want to reorient yourself within the larger cycles of time - come if there is something big you want to let go of and something big you want to welcome The Silver ThreadNext meeting: April 20th, 8am EST, zoom. Get all the support, emotional validation, and beckoning into the lunar mysteries  you ever wanted, in community: Monthly calls, ongoing alchemical Moon chatDesigned for queerness. Open to all.We are building together:☆ a personalized map of your emotional landscape ☆ a deepened relationship with lunar astrology☆ the mystery of collective alchemical witness☆ monthly rituals for auspicious lunation *recordings will be sent if you cannot make it to the monthly meetings live