Ep.34 Sex is Not Just Intercourse with Mandarin Speaking LMFT, Jean Yan

In this episode of Faith and Feels, I sit down with Jean Yan, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who is pursuing her Ph.D in Clinical Sexology. She is also trained in the Gottman Method and Hypnotherapy. We talk about why it’s so important to have honest conversations around sexual health and intimacy—especially within the Asian American faith-based community.Jean shares her journey into the field of clinical sexology, and we dive into the role of sexual education, the silence many women experience around their sexual health, and how faith and mental health intersect with our understanding of sexuality.This episode is all about breaking shame, building awareness, and making space for healing conversations we don’t often hear in church.(*For Mandarin Speaking Listeners, tune into her encouragement in Mandarin at 35 minutes 33 seconds!)Recommended Resources:Jean Yan's Website www.healthiercouples.comBook suggested "Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life" by Emily NagoskiMarriage/Couples support. www.gottman.comPixabay Music : "Exciting Day" and "Waterfall"Takeaways:Jean Yan is a licensed marriage family therapist who is pursuing clinical sexology.Clinical sexology focuses on healthy sexual behavior and health.Many therapists avoid discussing sexual issues with clients.Sex education is crucial for both children and adults.Intimacy encompasses more than just sexual intercourse.Women often feel embarrassed to discuss their sexual health.Creating safe spaces for conversations about sexuality is essential.Cultural barriers can hinder discussions about sexual health.Advocating for oneself is important in seeking help.Faith can play a significant role in addressing sexual health issues.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Faith in Fields and Guest Introduction02:47 Exploring Clinical Sexology and Its Importance06:11 Understanding Sexual Health and Therapy09:07 Personal Experiences and Aha Moments in Therapy12:04 The Impact of Sexual Abuse and Trauma14:55 The Significance of Sexual Education17:51 Advocating for Sexual Health in the Asian Community20:47 Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations23:59 Encouragement for Women in Their 50s26:51 Closing Thoughts and Resources