Ep.35: Diagnosing Autism Spectrum Disorder in Women and Girls

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) has long been misunderstood, especially in women and girls. In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Brady Bradshaw and Dr. Allison Brazendale, two experts in adolescent and adult mental health, to break down why ASD is often underdiagnosed in females. We dive into pink flags, the subtle signs that might indicate ASD, and discuss why so many girls and women go undiagnosed for years. Plus, we explore the overlap between ASD and ADHD, the role of sensory sensitivities, and how understanding ASD can lead to greater self-acceptance and connection. Episode Highlights:[00:03] – Welcome back! Introducing our expert guests, Dr. Brady Bradshaw and Dr. Allison Brazendale, and today’s topic: ASD in women and girls.[01:55] – Why is autism so often underdiagnosed in females? Breaking down outdated stereotypes and the challenges of diagnosis.[04:18] – Pink flags: The subtle early signs of ASD in girls that are often overlooked.[06:50] – The effortful nature of social interactions and why masking can be exhausting.[09:56] – How girls on the spectrum struggle with friendships and group dynamics.[12:36] – The overlap between ADHD and autism—how to tell the difference.[14:45] – What’s happening in the brain? Understanding the neurobiological differences of ASD.[23:37] – Sensory sensitivities: Why environments like grocery stores can feel overwhelming.[26:25] – Breaking the stigma: How the conversation around ASD is shifting, and why some are resistant to the diagnosis.[33:13] – Signs of ASD in adult women—what to look for if you suspect you or someone you know might be on the spectrum.[38:45] – ASD and relationships: Challenges in communication, perspective-taking, and emotional connection.[47:55] – The strengths of ASD: Deep focus, intelligence, and unique ways of seeing the world. Resources:Dr. Brady Bradshaw’s website: https://www.bradybradshawmd.com/ Book: Is This Autism? https://www.amazon.com/This-Autism-Donna-Henderson/dp/103215022X/ref=asc_df_103215022X?mcid=c3343feccc2d380f97695f5d35  For more on this topic visit our website insightsfromthecouch.org If you have questions please email us at [email protected] we would love to hear from you!If today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here’s to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!Ever stayed quiet to keep the peace and felt yourself disappear? The Cost of Quiet is for anyone who avoids conflict and pays the price. Reclaim your voice, strengthen your relationships, and experience real peace. Order your copy and join the movement: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book🎙️ Love the podcast? Come talk about episodes with us inside The Midlife Chat. It’s a free, private community just for women at midlife who want to keep these conversations going. We’ve created this space for real talk, fresh resources, and honest connection—where you can share ideas and resources, ask questions, and get support from women navigating the same season.  Come join us—we’d love to have you!👉 Join The Midlife Chat here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/795863256460970/Order The Cost of Quiet now! Colette’s new book, The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations that Create Secure, Lasting Love, launched February 3rd. Order your copy today: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-bookRecognized by FeedSpot:Top 60 Couples Therapy Podcasts | Top 100 U.S. Mental Health Podcasts | Top 100 Relaxation Podcasts