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EPISODE · Jan 13, 2026 · 44 MIN

Ep 37: A Life That Looked Perfect. Until it Didn’t! With Roya Mattis

from You Are Not Alone With Victoria Vita · host Victoria Vita

Roya Mattis’s journey began behind a life that looked successful on the outside.    She had a high-level career, financial security, recognition, and everything she once believed would make her feel fulfilled. But beneath the surface, she was struggling.    Her body began to break down with chronic illness, and emotionally she felt empty, confused, and disconnected.    Spiritually, she sensed that something was deeply misaligned and that there was more to who she was meant to be.   Her turning point came when she realized that feeling stuck wasn’t a failure, but  a sign that her old way of living no longer fit.    Powerful spiritual experiences helped her understand that she was being called to change and to help others do the same.   This marked the beginning of a long journey of healing, embodiment, and releasing patterns passed down through her family line.    Through her own transformation, Roya learned that true change doesn’t come from achievement or forcing growth, but from reconnecting with the body, honoring intuition, and living in alignment with truth rather than appearances. Key takeaways from Roya’s journey 1. Feeling stuck is a signal, not a flaw - When your life looks successful but feels empty, it’s an invitation to evolve into a deeper, truer version of yourself. 2. Curiosity opens the door to change - Instead of asking “Why?”, shift to “What else is possible for me?” Curiosity creates momentum where confusion once lived. 3. Messy growth is still growth - Every transformation passes through an awkward, uncomfortable phase. Embrace it, it means you’re alive, expanding, and becoming. 4. Alignment begins in the body - You can’t think your way into wholeness. True alignment comes from feeling, sensing, and reconnecting with your inner feminine or masculine essence.   Quotes by Roya 1. “When your life looks like success but feels like suffering, it’s not failure, it’s your soul asking you to evolve.”   2. “Every transformation has a messy middle. If you’re uncomfortable, you’re not doing it wrong, you’re waking up.”   3. “The patterns you carry aren’t always yours, but the power to rewrite them is. You can rise above anything coded into your past and create a new future.”   Connect with Roya Website - https://www.royamattis.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/p/Roya-Mattis-100054609182192/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/TheRoyaMattisExperience Tik Tok - https://www.tiktok.com/@royamattisexperience Email Address - [email protected]     💕 Learn how to manage your daily stress in less than 5 minutes everywhere and anywhere.    Download the "Boost your calmness techniques" to explore the opportunities life has to offer.     "Boost your calmness techniques" - https://mailchi.mp/selfawesomeness/boost-your-calmness  Our website: www.selfawesomeness.com   Instagram: www.instagram.com/selfawesomeness.com   Learn more: https://www.selfawesomeness.com/bio-social-links 

Roya Mattis’s journey began behind a life that looked successful on the outside.    She had a high-level career, financial security, recognition, and everything she once believed would make her feel fulfilled. But beneath the surface, she was struggling.    Her body began to break down with chronic illness, and emotionally she felt empty, confused, and disconnected.    Spiritually, she sensed that something was deeply misaligned and that there was more to who she was meant to be.   Her turning point came when she realized that feeling stuck wasn’t a failure, but  a sign that her old way of living no longer fit.    Powerful spiritual experiences helped her understand that she was being called to change and to help others do the same.   This marked the beginning of a long journey of healing, embodiment, and releasing patterns passed down through her family line.    Through her own transformation, Roya learned that true change doesn’t come from achievement or forcing growth, but from reconnecting with the body, honoring intuition, and living in alignment with truth rather than appearances. Key takeaways from Roya’s journey 1. Feeling stuck is a signal, not a flaw - When your life looks successful but feels empty, it’s an invitation to evolve into a deeper, truer version of yourself. 2. Curiosity opens the door to change - Instead of asking “Why?”, shift to “What else is possible for me?” Curiosity creates momentum where confusion once lived. 3. Messy growth is still growth - Every transformation passes through an awkward, uncomfortable phase. Embrace it, it means you’re alive, expanding, and becoming. 4. Alignment begins in the body - You can’t think your way into wholeness. True alignment comes from feeling, sensing, and reconnecting with your inner feminine or masculine essence.   Quotes by Roya 1. “When your life looks like success but feels like suffering, it’s not failure, it’s your soul asking you to evolve.”   2. “Every transformation has a messy middle. If you’re uncomfortable, you’re not doing it wrong, you’re waking up.”   3. “The patterns you carry aren’t always yours, but the power to rewrite them is. You can rise above anything coded into your past and create a new future.”   Connect with Roya Website - https://www.royamattis.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/p/Roya-Mattis-100054609182192/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/TheRoyaMattisExperience Tik Tok - https://www.tiktok.com/@royamattisexperience Email Address - [email protected]     💕 Learn how to manage your daily stress in less than 5 minutes everywhere and anywhere.    Download the "Boost your calmness techniques" to explore the opportunities life has to offer.     "Boost your calmness techniques" - https://mailchi.mp/selfawesomeness/boost-your-calmness  Our website: www.selfawesomeness.com  Instagram: www.instagram.com/selfawesomeness.com  Learn more: https://www.selfawesomeness.com/bio-social-links

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