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Jan 16, 2023 48 min

Ep. 37: Intention vs. Impact

from Unlearned Hosted by Jaime Mahler and CA Rhoades

If someone does something that hurts you but they didn't mean to hurt you are they at fault? What if they know those actions hurt you? What if they don't agree? CA and Jaime explore these questions and more as they discuss people's intentions vs the impact of their actions. Notes: An example of intention vs impact The importance of communication about expectations The difference between actual unintentional acts versus lies How even simple expectations can become imprisoning How each party is responsible for the intentions and impacts in a relationship Why do we not just tell people what bothers us? Why authenticity and accountability are so important When does ignorance become manipulation? How do we navigate all of this in a healthy way? Links: FREEBIE! Intention Prompts: http://tinyurl.com/Intentionprompts Follow the podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunlearnedpodcast/ Jaime’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/recollectedself/ Jaime’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@recollectedself CA’s Instagram: https://www.secure.instagram.com/embracingdivergence/ CA’s Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingdivergence Support the podcast by joining our Coffee Fiend club: https://www.patreon.com/unlearned Email us topics/suggestions: [email protected]

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