EP 38: Are You Putting God First? Brian's Before and After Moment in His Military Career

The uniform can become a mirror, and if you stare into it long enough you start to believe it tells you who you are. Around our table, Brian shares the precise moment he realized his life was out of order: he wasn’t simply a Christian serving in the Marine Corps, he was living as a Marine first and a Christian second. That identity gap didn’t just affect church attendance, it shaped his motives, his leadership, his marriage, and his willingness to speak openly about Jesus.We dig into what changed after a sermon in January 2008 flipped the priority stack. Brian didn’t quit the military on the spot. Instead, his “why” shifted. We talk about military leadership, character, and the difference between being a high performer and being genuinely high trust. Metrics can track fitness and efficiency, but they can’t measure integrity, humility, or whether someone will sacrifice for the good of others when nobody is watching.From there, we widen the lens to ordered loves (ordo amoris) and why Christians need their devotion to God to sit above career, rank, and even good gifts like family. We also get practical for young service members: questions about faith at work, moral clarity, church, Scripture, and how to learn from both the people who are doing life well and the ones quietly falling apart. The goal is simple: a more ordered soul that produces steadier peace, better service, and stronger relationships.If you’re a Christian in the military or married to one, listen, share it with a friend, and subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation. After you listen, leave a review and tell us: what tends to take first place in your life?CONNECT WITH US! Let us know what you want us to chat about next. Email us at [email protected] NOTES:- Have you felt like you need a refresh? Maybe you are searching for balance? Check out this super helpful book: Amazon.com : ordering your private world- Isaiah 6- Find a local church and plug in: Church Search - 9MarksOur Churches - Praetorian Project Support the showhttp://instagram.com/militarywellnesscollective