Ep 38 My Alcoholic Husband Doesn't Want Me To Go To Alanon! What Are My Options?

from Wife On The Rocks I Gaslighting, Addiction, Codependency, Al Anon, Alcoholism, Recovery · host Christian Alcoholism Relationship Coach, Alcoholic Marriage Coach

Does your husband push back when you mention Al-Anon—or accuse it of being “husband bashing”? You’re not alone. Many Christian wives long for support but feel trapped when their spouse doesn’t approve. In this episode of Wife on the Rocks, we’ll talk honestly about the struggle of wanting help with addiction and alcoholism while facing resistance at home. You’ll hear: Why secrecy feels like lying, but sometimes becomes survival when you need support. The truth about what Al-Anon really is (and isn’t). Online meeting options through the Al-Anon app and other accessible resources. Alternative programs and supports that can meet the same needs. How coaching or courses (like my upcoming fall program) can give you faith-based support without secrecy. You don’t have to choose between honoring your marriage and getting the help you need. The gaslighting of him saying that there isn't an issue in the first place and trying to make that make sense with what you are experiencing.......This conversation will help you sort through your options and move forward in wisdom and peace. 👉 Submit your questions for future episodes at https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession Curious about the fall course I am opening - Holiday Survival Course- email me to check out details and get on the waiting list! [email protected]

What this episode covers

Does your husband push back when you mention Al-Anon—or accuse it of being “husband bashing”? You’re not alone. Many Christian wives long for support but feel trapped when their spouse doesn’t approve. In this episode of Wife on the Rocks, we’ll talk honestly about the struggle of wanting help with addiction and alcoholism while facing resistance at home. You’ll hear: Why secrecy feels like lying, but sometimes becomes survival when you need support. The truth about what Al-Anon really is (and isn’t). Online meeting options through the Al-Anon app and other accessible resources. Alternative programs and supports that can meet the same needs. How coaching or courses (like my upcoming fall program) can give you faith-based support without secrecy. You don’t have to choose between honoring your marriage and getting the help you need. The gaslighting of him saying that there isn't an issue in the first place and trying to make that make sense with what you are experiencing.......This conversation will help you sort through your options and move forward in wisdom and peace. 👉 Submit your questions for future episodes at [email protected] 👉 Want personalized support? Book a 1:1 coaching session right here https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession Curious about the fall course I am opening - Holiday Survival Course- email me to check out details and get on the waiting list! [email protected]