Ep 38: Swinger Etiquette: Red Flags, Green Flags & Rabbit Holes

This week, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into one of the most talked-about topics in the lifestyle: red flags. And this time, it’s not just their own perspectives—they’re debating the warning signs shared by listeners on Peaches’nCream. From couples who feel like “fresh meat,” to partners who aren’t on the same page, to those misleading photos (or no photos at all), the crew unpacks the signals that can make or break a connection. But it’s not all caution tape—there are plenty of green flags, too, from inclusivity to empowerment and stretching comfort zones. With playful banter, candid stories, and just enough bite, this episode will leave you laughing, nodding along, and maybe rethinking your own approach to the lifestyle.JOIN US in 2026 on the Bliss Cruise in February or at Naughty Nawlins and support our podcast by booking your ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Please do us a favor and visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠(00:00:00) We asked our listeners(00:02:29) Red Flag 1: We are new and feel like ‘fresh meat’(00:04:41) Being inclusive is more fun for everyone(00:07:00) Red Flag 2: Disrespecting their own partner(00:08:48) When one partner isn’t ‘into it’ and needs to drink to play(00:10:46) Red Flag 3: Too much attention can be a turn off(00:12:10) Red Flag 4: Name dropping(00:15:54) Red Flag 5: Misleading or just missing photos…of him (00:17:17) Meeting virtually before an in-person meeting(00:21:04) Sunday night booty call(00:24:16) Everyone gets to do it their way(00:25:00) Green flags!(00:30:16) Expanding your comfort zone boundaries(00:33:00) Sexual liberation and empowerment(00:35:30) Talking about erections before a play session(00:40:29) When the dick shot doesn’t work(00:43:50) Sexual liberation and penis evolution(00:45:18) Red Flag 6: When couples or singles start messaging outside the group chat(00:45:42) Hooking up with someone of the same sex without your partner’s consent  (00:48:29) Red Flag 6 may not a red flag for everyone(00:54:06) Join the conversation on Peaches’nCream!We'd love to connect with you!Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!⁠⁠https://web.peachesncream.app/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2⁠Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie.Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:⁠⁠[email protected]⁠