Ep. 38 | Your Reality Mirrors Your Identity…Here’s How to Upgrade Both

In this episode of The Untethered Podcast, I’m unpacking the identity shift I didn’t see coming and why it hit harder than any strategy ever could. With the energetic reset of Chinese New Year and stepping into 2026, I share what happens when we get addicted to being perceived as the saviour and how that quietly creates chaos, codependency, and a life that doesn’t actually feel like yours.In this episode:Identity shift + energetic patterns driving your life.The saviour/martyr loop and why vanity metrics keep you stuck How projections and triggers reveal the parts you can’t see yetSovereignty, autonomy, and choosing truth over approval Closing the gap between current self and becoming self If this hits a nerve, hit follow and share it with someone who’s ready to stop outsourcing themselves.Key moments of this interview:0:14 Chinese New Year Identity Reset3:06 Going Viral Felt Horrible6:42 “Abbey Is A God”9:13 Earth Angel Hierarchy Trap12:33 Defending Yourself Proves Doubt15:22 Truth Is Unfuckwithable18:26 No One Person Saves All21:31 This Isn’t Sovereignty24:25 Business Reflects Your Energy28:18 Boundaries Become Ego31:22 When Identity Crumbles34:16 Fear Of CrucifixionMore about Abbey Rose:Website:  https://thespiritual.accountant/links  Instagram: @thespiritualaccountant Untethered Facebook Group: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/583919092566315⁠