EP 4: #LifeMoments - Going through #Singlehood

An episode of the The ABCs with ShantelJT podcast, hosted by ShantelJThomas, titled "EP 4: #LifeMoments - Going through #Singlehood" was published on April 5, 2018 and runs 15 minutes.

April 5, 2018 ·15m · The ABCs with ShantelJT

Summary

There was A meme popping around For quite sometime "Question, you ask on A first date, then proceeds Like this..... What traumas are you Projecting on to me?" A lot people I follow vibe With it But for me it made me feel Uncomfortable because I felt & still feel like If you're really about being Self Aware & Transparent You would know how hard The journey of discovering Your insecurities & triggers Are, & wouldn't force Anyone down that path Especially, on the first date I felt like it was audacious To feel like you're Entitled enough to know An individual on That level on a first date Instead, I think it's our own Responsibilities to know What are needs & triggers Are in a relationship & Let your partner know What's up This is where I want to be Comfortable & Confident Enough to say I like being texted back The same day I'm needy & like closeness I love quality time a lot Like I mean a lot 😅 But also appreciated & need My solitude & space Or when I get called messy It's triggers me

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