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Sep 22, 2026 4 min

Ep. 4 | When "No" Really Means New Opportunity

from Tea Talk with Coach Carolyn Hosted by Carolyn Ramona Hantz

In 1979, working full-time and going to school at night, I was told I didn't qualify for financial aid because my mother made too much money. I could have accepted that. I didn't. I went back to the Financial Aid Office, made my case a different way, and talked my way into a Trustee Scholarship. That experience became one of the earliest lessons of my career, and it's still one I lean on today. In this episode I talk about: Why the first "no" you're given rarely tells the whole story The questions to ask before you accept an answer and walk away My own acronym for NO: New Opportunity How persistence and strategy have shaped my career and the women I coach Where accomplished women tend to stop asking too soon Tea Talk reflection: Where have you accepted a "no" that you haven't fully investigated? What if you asked the question another way, talked to a different person, or asked what would have to change? New episodes drop every Tuesday. Follow the show so the next one lands right in your library. Prefer video? Tea Talk with Coach Carolyn is also on YouTube.

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