EP 412: The Anxious-Avoidant Dating Trap (And What to Do to Stop It)

DON’T MISS THIS! Grab your seat at for the Move to Secure Attachment 3-Day Challenge: *CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR THE FREE CHALLENGE*Today’s topic is utterly fascinating, and if it’s ever happened to you, you know just how painful it can be. I am talking about the anxious/avoidant dating trap, where these opposing attachment styles are drawn to one another like a moth to a flame. Inside this episode: -I review both anxious and avoidant attachment styles and the beliefs they have about relationships -I share how you can break the cycle of the anxious/avoidant dating rollercoaster -Important parts when to consider when healing the anxious/avoidant dynamic in a couple Aaaaaand so much more! It’s time to become the version of you who attracts her emotionally available dream partner without wasting time on the wrong guys. Stop the dating games and become the securely attached version of you: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramEpisode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Overview03:22 Anxious Attachment04:20 Avoidant Attachment07:41 Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic12:26 Physical Intimacy in Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic14:20 Moving Towards Secure Attachment15:43 Working on Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic18:28 Asking for Reassurance and Giving Reassurance21:20 Disorganized Attachment23:14 Taking Action to Changed26:02 Conclusion