EP. 415 "Talk To The Lady, Or The Man" ft. Shahem Mclaurin

This week, we had the pleasure of hosting Shahem Mclaurin, a licensed therapist and social worker who focuses on trauma and patriarchy-impacted individuals. Shahem shared his expertise on the impact of patriarchy on both men and women, explaining how societal norms that center around men can be harmful to everyone. He emphasized the importance of emotional attunement and the ability to fully feel and process one's emotions. We discussed the challenges men face in seeking therapy and the common criticisms Shahem encounters in his work, particularly from men who feel that women are not held accountable in the same way.Try VIIA! https://bit.ly/viiacocktales  and use code COCKTALES!Try JoyMode by visiting www.joymode.com and use code COCKTALESFollow our guest:@5hahemFollow Us @cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanWe're inviting you all to a live studio recording with special guest Elizabeth Gilbert.  Grab your tickets now Purchase Tickets by Clicking HereJoin Kiki In Curacao- https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Join Medinah in Iceland or Costa Rica- www.paradiseandvibe.comMurder Mystery Dinner- https://boxwoodsocialhall.com/single-event/till-death-do-us-part-a-murder-mystery-wedding/For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: [email protected]: [email protected] Sex: [email protected] Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Us @cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanJoin Us On Our Travels:Curacao with Kiki's Travel Tribe https://www.seekdharma.com/trips/kikis-travel-tribe/Iceland & Costa Rica with Medinah & Paradise + Vibehttps://paradiseandvibe.com/Get your Vesper and other Jewelry From Cravehttps://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club- September's Book- This Could Be Us By Kennedy Ryan- https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao! Reserve Your Spot Here!Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.comPurchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form