Ep. 418: Impulse Control

In the special segment "Checkin' the Inbox," Laura and Shanna answer listener questions about staving off sickness when you're a parent, managing your child's impulsive behaviors, knowing when your child needs speech therapy, and more! Also, Shanna reports on an action-packed getaway to Ojai and Santa Barbara with her mom and girls, and Laura shares two updates about her 5-year-old, including a drawing milestone and a dollar-store hack that's been a hit. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• Should I give my child a structured or unstructured summer break?• A SoCal weekend getaway that is close to Los Angeles and FUN!• Family-friendly activities in Ojai and Santa Barbara• The benefits of taking your kids on adventures in nature• Getting your child an eye exam• When your child suddenly has a leap in drawing skills• Ideas for how to stay healthy and avoid sickness when you are a parent• Situations that make you feel uncool as a mom• How do you know if your child needs speech therapy?• How does impulsive behavior manifest in children with ADHD?• Tips for handling impulsive behavior• Audiobooks and podcasts we currently love• A fun, local, family activity - mini golf• The best affordable sunscreen that your kids will actually likeProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Lake Casitas kayak rentals• Santa Barbara Zoo• Land Shark Tours Santa Barbara• BFP Episode 75 - where Shanna first talks about being intimidated by teenagers• The ADHD Parenting Podcast• Mike McLeod: Executive Function-ADHD Specialist• Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT)• Yesteryear by Caro Claire Burke• Famesick: A Memoir by Lena Dunham• Automatic Noodle by Annalee Newitz• Love Trapped podcast• Search Engine podcast episode - "Why doesn't anybody come to my parties?"• The Interview podcast episode - "Robby Hoffman Will Always Feel Poor, No Matter How Rich She Gets"• If Books Could Kill podcast• Since You Asked podcast• Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb• Sherman Oaks Castle Park Mini Golf• Trader Joe's Invisible Gel Body Sunscreen• Trader Joe's Daily Facial SunscreenConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: [email protected]• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.