Ep. 425: Sharing Her 41 Hour Home Birth Story Solocast with HeHe Stewart

This episode is brought to you by Cozy Earth, makers of luxuriously soft bamboo sheets, blankets, and sleep essentials. Because your rest matters, mamas. Cozy Earth makes it easier to get the cozy, breathable sleep your body (and your little one) deserve. Use code HEHE at https://cozyearth.com/ for 20% off your order and treat yourself to the sleep you’ve been dreaming of. In this episode of the The Birth Lounge Podcast, HeHe shares her full home birth story and early postpartum reflections after welcoming her baby boy earthside. She breaks down her intentional choice to build a home birth team to protect autonomy and avoid unnecessary interventions, walks through a long, physiologic labor, and shares how informed consent, continuous support, and advocacy shaped a trauma-free birth experience. From 'late' labor, slow progress, and powerful pushing to staying grounded through conversations about hospital transfer, this episode is a real look at what empowered, supported birth can actually look like. HeHe also shares early postpartum life, including her thoughts on lying-in, breastfeeding, babywearing, and motherhood updates on Instagram @TranquilityByHeHe. 00:00 Why This Birth Couldn’t Happen in a Typical U.S. Hospital 01:09 “I Have a Baby!” Postpartum Awe + Becoming a Mom 04:18 Why I Share Online: Birth Rights, Options & Normalizing Motherhood 07:16 Privacy Boundaries: Protecting Baby’s Details in the AI Era 09:31 12 Days Past Due: Date Night Sushi & The First Contractions 12:44 Water Breaks at 6:30 AM: Confirming, Mucus Plug & Waking Dad 15:53 All-Day Early Labor: Staying Home, No Pressure, Infection Precautions 19:51 Night 2 Ramps Up: Birth Space Setup, Dinner, Slow Dance & Shower 27:03 3 AM Toilet Time: Transition Signs, Filling the Tub & Calling the Team 33:59 Sponsor Break: Cozy Earth Postpartum Comfort Essentials 36:04 In the Birth Pool: Team Arrives, Complete Dilation & Passive Pushing Begins 38:27 Ferguson vs. Fetal Ejection Reflex: When FER Never Shows Up 40:10 Benadryl Rest Strategy: Trying to Reset a Stalled Pushing Pattern 41:47 Calling in the Chiropractor: Adjustments for Positioning & Persistent Rectal Pain 42:52 All the Positions, No Progress: Movement Marathon to Bring Contractions Closer 43:21 Midwives Say ‘You Have to Push’: Letting Go of Waiting for FER 45:51 Shower + Birth Ball & ‘Hulk Out’ Mode: Feeling Hair and Finding Fuel 48:43 Perfect Vitals, Growing Concern: The Transfer Conversation Looms 50:37 Clearing the Bathroom: Talking to Baby, Asking for a Sign 54:06 Husband Advocates to Stay Home: Autonomy, Risk Talk, and Trust 57:16 Crowning for 90 Minutes: The Final Push to Birth 59:29 After Birth Care: APGARs, Pitocin Decision, and Stitches 01:01:07 The Afterglow: Doulas, Dad’s Support, and First Night at Home 01:04:01 What Made It Possible: Prep, Team Support, and Mindset Lessons 01:08:04 Big Takeaways: Autonomy, No Birth Trauma, and Final Thanks   SOCIAL MEDIA: Connect with HeHe on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tranquilitybyhehe/    BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge for judgment-free, evidence-based childbirth education that shows you exactly how to navigate hospital policies, avoid unnecessary interventions, and have a trauma-free labor experience — all while feeling wildly supported every step of the way: https://www.thebirthlounge.com/ Want prep delivered straight to your phone? Download The Birth Lounge App for bite-sized birth and postpartum tools you can use anytime, anywhere: https://www.thebirthlounge.com/app-download-page And if you haven’t grabbed it yet… Snag my free Pitocin Guide to understand the risks, benefits, and red flags your provider may not be telling you about, so you can make informed, powerful decisions in labor: https://www.thebirthlounge.com/pitocin LINKS MENTIONED: Check out the First Trimester Update HeHe mentioned here: https://youtu.be/DgcQGnHJ-Aw?si=6sgC5o4iOtuT94WE   Save 10$ on Tubina Wild with code HEHE: https://www.tubinawild.com/shop   Check out the birth sling here: https://thebirthsling.com/