Ep.431 - Whatever Bothers You Is Your Problem To Solve

“Whatever bothers you is your problem to solve.”I’m not saying everything that happens to you is your fault. I’m saying that when something repeatedly bothers you, it deserves your attention—not necessarily because you caused it, but because you have to decide what you are going to do about it.Jordan Peterson has expressed a similar principle: the things that bother us can serve as signals pointing toward problems we may be capable of addressing. (PodScripts)Stop Complaining. Start Solving.Think about how much energy we waste complaining about other people.“My family doesn’t respect me.”“My boss doesn’t appreciate me.”“My business isn’t growing.”“People don’t support me.”“The economy is bad.”“Ghana has too many problems.”But complaining doesn’t change the situation.The better question is:What can I do about it?