Ep.44 An Honest Conversation on Sex, Porn, Love Addiction in the Church with Pastor Wilson Wang & Kristen Whitmore

In this episode of Faith and Feels, I have the privilege to share in a special first-take conversation originally recorded for the SOLA Network leaders podcast with Pastor Wilson Wang and Renew Church staff member, Kristen Whitmore. Together, they unpack the often-hidden struggles of sexual addiction and love addiction—issues that leave many feeling isolated and weighed down by shame.The discussion highlights why accountability and connection are vital for healing, how church leaders can model vulnerability, and the importance of addressing underlying issues rather than avoiding them. This honest and hope-filled conversation offers encouragement, practical insight, and a reminder that transformation is possible when we walk together in community.You will surely be blessed by this conversation!Takeaways:Sexual addiction and love addiction are prevalent issues in the church.Shame and silence often prevent individuals from seeking help.Accountability and connection are crucial for recovery.The church must create safe spaces for open discussions about addiction.Statistics show a significant number of Christians struggle with porn addiction.Recovery is a journey that requires community support.The opposite of addiction is connection, not sobriety.Women face unique challenges in discussing their struggles with addiction.Practical tools and resources are essential for recovery.Healing begins when struggles are brought into the light.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the Conversation01:30 Understanding Sexual and Love Addiction09:29 The Prevalence of Addiction in the Church17:52 Recovery and Accountability in Addiction22:35 Addressing Addiction in Church Communities34:22 Practical Steps for Church Leaders39:03 Hope and Healing in CommunityRecommended Resources:www.renewchurchoc.comThe Same Boat Podcast, Episode 2.14-2.16 with Pastor Wilson Wang & Roy Kimwww.podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-same-boat/id11625280282.14 Mental Health : Sexual Addiction (Part 1)2.15 Mental Health : Sexual Addiction (Part 2)2.16 Mental Health : Sexual Addiction (Part 3)12 Steps SAA(Sex Addicts Anonymous Group) at Evergreen Baptist Church of Los Angeleswww.recovery102025.wixsite.com/recoverywww.joinrelay.appwww.sherecovery.orgwww.puredesireministries.orgwww.fightthenewdrug.comBooks :"Beyond the Porn Phenomenon" by Barna Report Partnered with Pure Desire Ministries"Unwanted" by Jay Stringer"Facing Love Addiction" by Pia Mellody*Pixabay Music : "Exciting Day" and "Waterfall"