Ep. 441 "Take Some Sh*t Off Her Plate & The Panties Will Follow" ft. Tana C. Gilmore

This week, we’re shaking things up with The Affair — the cocktail, not your situationship (but if the shoe fits…). We’re joined by the fabulous matchmaker and intimacy expert Tana C. Gilmore, and let’s just say: she’s spilling all the tea on sexless marriages, spicy matchmaking secrets, and why living in separate states from your husband might just save your marriage and your sanity. We’re talking grown folks business — from side-eyes over the group chat to couples who haven’t had sex in 12 years (girl, yes, 12!). Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a reminder to charge your vibrator AND your emotional batteries.Follow Us@cocktalespodcast@kikisaidso@coffeebeandeanFollow our guest @tanacgilmoreRight now, Galatea is offering our listeners an extra 25% off on top of analready-irresistibly-affordable subscription when you go to www.GALATEA.COM/COCKTALES.If you’re 21+, try VIIA during their annual SPRING 420 SALE for Black Friday-level savings up to 35% OFF site wide! Go to https://viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES!Check out ErikaLust.com and get 45% off your subscription with code COCKTALES45 www.erikalust.comFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: [email protected]: [email protected] Sex: [email protected] Show Sponsorship: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] your Vesper and other Jewelry From Crave https://lovecrave.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club-  https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso In April we're reading "The Personal Librarian"Travel With Medinah! Visit ParadiseandVibe.com What's Your Attachment Style Home?Take The QuizInterested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form