Ep. 444 A leader's dual life driven by anxiety with Haley

Many leaders appear polished, confident, and in control. But beneath that surface, a different story can unfold. Nonprofit leader and coach Haley Cooper lived that double reality for years. She managed fundraising teams, coached other leaders, and built a thriving business. Yet every night, she returned to alcohol to silence the anxiety she carried all day. Her story is not unique. Many women in leadership quietly battle anxiety and addiction. When Leadership Looks Good but Feels Broken Haley Cooper's professional life was impressive by any measure. The Secret Life Behind the Competent Leader Haley describes leading two completely separate lives. Living in a Constant State of Fear At the heart of Haley's struggle was unrelenting anxiety. The Turning Point: Surrender and Sobriety For Haley, the turning point came on March 31, 2025. What to Do If You Recognize Yourself in This Story If you are a leader reading this and something feels familiar, Haley has a clear message. Y Leading Others Starts with Leading Yourself One of the most profound shifts in Haley's recovery has been in her role as a parent. There Is No Shame in Asking for Help The final message from Haley's story is one of radical worthiness. Website for Haley Cooper Additional Resources The Gift of Imperfection by Rene Brown Do You Believe Your Self-Talk? Links for You, Me, and Anxiety: Parent Book Teen Book Schedule a free consultation discovery call with Robyn. Download the free eBook: Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Healthy Habits for a Healthy Mind Read the full show notes and access all links.