Ep. 45: Why Behavior Problems Often Start at Birth (And How to Prevent Them)

An episode of the Dr. Todd Talks podcast, hosted by Todd Corelli, titled "Ep. 45: Why Behavior Problems Often Start at Birth (And How to Prevent Them)" was published on June 22, 2025 and runs 18 minutes.

June 22, 2025 ·18m · Dr. Todd Talks

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Summary

Why Behavior Problems Often Start at Birth (And How to Prevent Them)Most behavior issues aren’t caused by defiance or lack of discipline. They’re rooted in a child’s early attachment experience—long before they can even speak.In this episode, you’ll learn:• How attachment in the first five years shapes behavior later on• What every child needs in each year from birth to age five• The “Four S’s” of secure attachment: Safe, Seen, Soothed, and Secure• What to do if your child seems avoidant, anxious, or overly independent• Why satisfying your child’s need for connection is the best path to real independenceThis isn’t about parenting trends or strict routines. It’s about showing up in a way that helps your child feel safe, valued, and connected—so they can thrive.From Dr. Todd Corelli — clinical psychologist, parenting expert, and dad🌐 Learn more: www.drtoddtalks.com🧠 Sign up for the Connection and Credibility parenting course: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/📺 Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtoddtalks📸 Instagram: @drtoddtalks🎙 Podcast: Dr. Todd Talks — available wherever you listenIf this episode helped you, leave a review — and share it with a parent who’s struggling with their child’s behavior.#parenting #attachment #earlychildhood #childdevelopment #drtoddtalks #connectionandcredibility #mentalhealth #parentingtipsWant more than just tips? My parenting course, Connection & Credibility, helps you build a strong bond with your kids while setting healthy boundaries that actually work. Explore the course: https://drtoddtalks.com/course/For more parenting insights, visit my website: https://www.drtoddtalks.comFind me on YouTube at: https://youtube.com/@drtoddtalksFollow on Instagram: https://instagram.com/drtoddtalks

Episode Description

Why Behavior Problems Often Start at Birth (And How to Prevent Them)

Most behavior issues aren’t caused by defiance or lack of discipline. They’re rooted in a child’s early attachment experience—long before they can even speak.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How attachment in the first five years shapes behavior later on

• What every child needs in each year from birth to age five

• The “Four S’s” of secure attachment: Safe, Seen, Soothed, and Secure

• What to do if your child seems avoidant, anxious, or overly independent

• Why satisfying your child’s need for connection is the best path to real independence

This isn’t about parenting trends or strict routines. It’s about showing up in a way that helps your child feel safe, valued, and connected—so they can thrive.

From Dr. Todd Corelli — clinical psychologist, parenting expert, and dad

🌐 Learn more: www.drtoddtalks.com

🧠 Sign up for the Connection and Credibility parenting course: https://correctandconnect.com/courses/connection-credibility/

📺 Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtoddtalks

📸 Instagram: @drtoddtalks

🎙 Podcast: Dr. Todd Talks — available wherever you listen

If this episode helped you, leave a review — and share it with a parent who’s struggling with their child’s behavior.

#parenting #attachment #earlychildhood #childdevelopment #drtoddtalks #connectionandcredibility #mentalhealth #parentingtips

Want more than just tips? My parenting course, Connection & Credibility, helps you build a strong bond with your kids while setting healthy boundaries that actually work. Explore the course: https://drtoddtalks.com/course/

For more parenting insights, visit my website: https://www.drtoddtalks.com

Find me on YouTube at: https://youtube.com/@drtoddtalks

Follow on Instagram: https://instagram.com/drtoddtalks