Ep. 454 @sexwithashley on Dating, Pleasure & Her Cult Escape

This week, we’re joined by sexual health expert, writer, and podcaster @sexwithashley for a raw, hilarious, and honest convo about dating as a sex-positive woman, escaping the grip of purity culture, and what she’s learned about pleasure along the way. From stairwell sex at an AAU tournament to popping cherries at the sex club, Ashley keeps it real about her personal journey with boundaries, ethical non-monogamy, and the myths people still hold about women who talk about sex.We also get into: dating daddies, digmatization recovery, and why some men love the idea of a freak… until they actually meet oneLinks Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidso📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/Cancer WalkVisit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get30% off sitewide.🛒 Support the Show and Check Out Offers From Our Sponsors: Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube – trust, the facial expressions alone are worth it. CockTales Channel on YouTube 📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice:  [email protected]: [email protected] Sex: [email protected]: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! www.paradiseandvibe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] todayBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form